Sex, Lies and Secrets: is Secrecy Destroying Your Marriage?

After the story broke that New York governor Eliot Spitzer was having sex with prostitutes, relationship experts popped up on every news channel, dispensing theories about Mr. Spitzer’s behavior. Opinions about why a married man (and one with a great deal to lose) would behave this way ranged from him having unmet needs to [...]

Tell Me No Lies: 7 Reasons Why you Might Lie to your Partner

In the workshops I conduct for couples, I often ask if anyone has ever lied to their partner (the couples respond anonymously). Usually more than half (sometimes as many as 90%) admit to having lied to their spouse or partner at some point. More than half the people who said they lied to [...]